Sunday, 5 April 2015

Teenagers


                     TEENAGERS                                            

Adolescence a very difficult stage of life in which many transformations happen in the mind and the body of a boy or a girl. In the meantime, the child social role is abandoned in order to acquire a new role in adult life. These physical and mental changes can creates doubts and incomprehension and can change ideals each young persons reacts to this stage of life in his/her way, according to his/her personality and his/her past experience. Unfortunately, today we are stressed from messages tell us how we should dress, behave and be fashionable. We all are deeply influenced , consciously or unconsciously, by the mass media and this is especially true for teenagers. It's normal and unavoidable that in that phase of life, values changes and moves on to what society proposes as ideals. You can't avoid it, but you need to understand these behaviours in order to prevent flights and incomprehension feelings with your daughter. Experimenting is not always due to the curiosity of the child. Friends have a lot of influence because it is important for youngsters to belong to a group to which they want to belong uses stimulates they will have to go along with that to be part of the group. The pressure from the group can be very big. The extent to which youngsters wants to go along with that depends on their own personality and skills. Youngsters with little confidence are more sensible to the group's pressure than youngsters with a lot of confidence. Two important things that you can give your children in their education are confidence and a positive self-image. The child will get confidence through the things he does. When the child gets an excess of criticism, he will start to think negatively about himself and be more vulnerable. Youngsters with confidence are better in deciding what they want and what they don't want. They are better in coping with the group's pressure. That makes the risk of an experiment that gets out of hand smaller....